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.Ugh.creepy!Plus when was the last time you saw movie that both you and your femalecompanion were truly excited about afterwards?Chances are, at least one of you will be bored out of his/her mind.Going tothe movies is just an excuse for guys to sit next to the woman in darknessand for women to have men pay for their movie.And what will you have learned about each other when the credits startrolling and it is time to leave?Nothing!The  do-do'sSo what you want to suggest, is something simple, that won't take muchtime or money and is easy to back out of right then and there if necessary.Suggesting the two of you have a cup of tea together at your favorite stop isa good starter.If you wish, you may even point out all the reasons why this is good: Since I don't know, maybe you're a psycho and then I can at least make aquick exit and be safe in a public place.She'll get a chuckle out of it :)If this works out and things are good at the get-together, have somethinglined up either for an immediate follow-up or a second get-together that hasinteresting conversation built right into it.For example a walk through an area that has a lot of interesting, eclectic,artsy or trendy shops in it, or you could also go play pool or miniature golf.Depending on how things are going, it may even be time to  show her yourbutterfly collection [or whatever] back at your place at the end of the date,but those strategies are already the scope of other articles at LayGuide.com.Page 229Copyright © 2006, Simon Heong -- All Rights Reserved.www.InstantAttractionProgram.comInstant Attraction ProgramTechnique 21 - The practice of arranging a get-together with a womanNow that you have her e-mail address or MSN address or phone number -what should you write about in the e-mail?Or talk about on the phone?Lots of guys slump into lengthy e-mail exchanges or phone conversationsonce they get the necessary contacts from the woman.Don t make the same mistake!The goal is to get together with a woman, the only reason you got her e-mailaddress or phone number was to arrange for that.So keep in mind, that your goal is to move from e-mail exchanges or onlinechat or phone talk to a real life meeting ASAP.You got her e-mail address?Forget email!Email sucks, it takes forever.If you're exchanging mails of some type, insist on moving to chat."I don t have time to write, read or wait for lengthy emails, I m too buzy forthat, do you have msn or some other instant messenger contacts?"Once you're on MSN: "Argh, u type so slowly, why don t u just call me, yesright now, here s my number".Or just say:"Hey what about having a conversation like NORMAL people, on thetelephone? Here's my number".This implies that in case she insists on chatting via an instant messenger,she's a dork and if she wants to fall back in line with the rest of mankind(that is - STOP being a dork!), she'd better call you ASAP or give you herphone number right now.On the phone just chat enough to strengthen and increase the rapport youhad going on MSN and continue with the cocky and funny tease, then headfor arranging a real-life get-together.Page 230Copyright © 2006, Simon Heong -- All Rights Reserved.www.InstantAttractionProgram.comInstant Attraction Program Listen, I gotta go now.But here let me see, hmm& I'm busy today,tomorrow morning I'll be making a presentation and I have a business lunchafter that, but wait, I have an opening in the evening tomorrow, how aboutwe get together at 4 PM at [name a place] for a cup of tea and somestimulating conversation? Yeah, sounds good?.But better yet, arrange for a get-together immediately via whatever contactsyou got, be it e-mail, chat or phone, without hopping from one to another.Chat enough to be polite and then proceed with  Ok I m busy, but why don twe meet& Here s a super tip to end each arrangement with, just say: So when we meet, I want you to smile, give me a big warm friendly hug andtake my hand:) Deal ?"End the phone call /chat and start the meeting with these and you'll haveremoved many an obstacle from your path to being one with the girl.Once the date has been set and the initiating routine (smiling, hugging andholding hands) has been agreed upon, it is time to hang up or close the chat.Lingering on the phone or in online chat after closing the date is the kiss ofdeath.If anything ever needs to be quit, the best time to do it is always thehighpoint, and the highpoint of your conversation with her is fixing the date [ Pobierz caÅ‚ość w formacie PDF ]